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Should painted door and window trim match.
You should do what is most aesthetically pleasing to you.
That is what i have to do not for looks but for insulation.
I think you could do a smaller version of the door trim for the windows.
You could of course keep just the sashes white and then paint the white frame piece around the sashes to match the darker outer trim but this can void the warranty of the window so it s not an option for everyone.
You could also hang the curtains so they hide the window trim.
Interior designers traditionally consider the door as part of the interior trim which includes the baseboards and door and window casings.
Painting doors and trim different colors can be a good idea for you to try.
However you need to know that one important thing that you always have to keep in mind before making a choice is that your choice is not merely about which color for the doors and which color for the trim.
I would be fine if they don t match.